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The Holy Window

4/28/2018

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This blog is my effort to mine the gems from "The Moment When..." podcast. 
From Episode 3: When The Light Is Dark — Clayton Light
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by Belinda Lams

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"I had to seize that moment or ​just give up for good."
                            -Clayton Light

​Life can feel so random at times.


Then there are those moments when everything seems to come together.


The clouds part and you are invited to change your life.

In Clayton's episode, he talked about a window of opportunity that opened up for him when his life was falling apart.  Had there been other windows? Perhaps. But there was something very special about this one. 

It came at a particular time and place. When the stars were aligned. The conditions were right. It was radiating beams of hope to his heart that hadn't been as obvious with the other windows. He knew this one was different. So...he seized it. He made a choice, got on the sober train, and has been on it ever since.

That's really what "The Moment When..." podcast is about. Those moments when we get a clear message that shifts our reality. We have a longing for change. The moment arrives. We are presented with a choice. 


Opportunities pass. 

These windows don't stay open forever. Yes, there could be another one down the road, but what if there isn't? What if this one is THE ONE? When everything is lined up and waiting for you to decide to walk through that opening.

While not every decision carries such high stakes, Clayton's choice really was about life or death. If he had continued on his path of addiction, it eventually would have killed him. He had the sense that this holy window of opportunity was his last. He says,

"I came to the fork in the road; are you going to live or are you going to die?"

He decided to live. 


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The Blunt Truth

4/17/2018

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This blog is my effort to mine the gems from "The Moment When..." podcast. 
From Episode 3: When The Light Is Dark — Clayton Light
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​by Belinda Lams

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"Dropping all the bullshit and being honest
​was a turning point."  
  
                         -Clayton Light


Years ago, I attended a personal transformation seminar.

There were opportunities for the participants to share something personal with the group. Many times, we would hear something that felt like a well-rehearsed script. It sounded nice in some way, but fell a little flat.

And then, there were moments when someone would share something very authentic and vulnerable. We all knew it was the truth because it landed with a thud.

The atmosphere of the room would change. Even if that truth was difficult, it would bring hope into our hearts. 


In Clayton's episode, he admitted that he hadn't told himself the truth of his condition. In avoiding the truth, he stayed stuck in the addiction.

He finally looked in the mirror and said, "You're a drunk who's been thrown out by his wife. You've lost your business. You've lost your family. You've lost everything and you're sick!"

From that acknowledgement of the truth, he was able to take the steps toward change. 


The truth is a key that unlocks the door to transformation. 

In his recovery, Clayton's mentor had him seek repair with those whom he had hurt through his addiction. Before he would approach each person, he would write out exactly what he wanted to say, allowing his mentor to review. 

After he carefully wrote one such paragraph, his mentor crossed it out and wrote, "I lied." Again, that truth landed with a thud. All the extraneous words couldn't say it as powerfully as the blunt truth. 

All of us avoid telling ourselves the truth at one point or another. Often it's too painful to see. Sometimes, we know it will require taking courageous action which we're afraid to take.  What is it for you?


Denial may keep us safe, but it also keeps us stuck. 
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